Elegant Introductions in the news: our vetting process is a huge benefit of our matchmaking service.
As matchmakers, we often speak with singles who are very concerned about safety in today’s online dating world. At a time when it’s become more acceptable to share information about yourself with people you hardly know — or don’t even know at all — how can you be sure that your information is safe, and […]
Ask Nancy: How do I stop comparing my date to my late husband?
Dear Nancy, My husband has been deceased for 15 years. I’m looking for a new relationship, but every time I go on a date, I can’t help but compare everyone to my late husband. Do you have any advice for me? – Estelle H. Dear Estelle, It’s important not to compare your dates to anyone. […]
Ask Nancy: How do I stop comparing my date to my late husband?
Believe it or not, Chanukah is right around the corner. The first candle will be lit December 6, a little more than a month from now. Why are we telling you this? Because, as Jewish matchmakers, we know that Chanukah is not just a time of joy and of giving; it’s also a great time […]
Ask Nancy: How do I stop building a wall every time I get into a relationship?
Dear Nancy, I really want a relationship but I build a wall every time I get close to another person. Help! – Miriam G. Dear Miriam, Your thoughts are interfering with your heart. Try to examine what it is that is preventing you from moving forward when there’s a possibility of a new relationship. Is […]
This is the time for Jewish singles to embrace new beginnings
Now that the Jewish holidays are behind us, and everyone’s back to their normal schedules, it’s a good time to be reminded of what we promised ourselves just a few weeks ago—to be even better as individuals than we were last year. This is the time of year when everything’s new again. Simchat Torah marked […]
Ask Nancy: If I’m dating a man with less resources, how do I stop money from coming between us?
Dear Nancy, I think I’m falling in love with a man who has far less resources than I do. He’s everything that I could ask for, but I’m frightened that money might come between us. What should I do? – Arlene W. Dear Arlene, Try not to let it. Ask yourself what’s the most important […]
When it comes to dating, trust yourself more and question yourself less
Questions. Life is full of them, and many of us were rightly taught to always ask questions. We’re encouraged to ask questions, both to fortify our minds, and to gain a better understanding of the world around us. These are always good questions: Do I want to have more children? Am I satisfied with my life? […]
Ask Nancy: Should I change my signature hairstyle to get more dates?
Introducing our new feature: Ask Nancy. Nancy Gold, co-founder of Elegant Introductions, is a psychologist who has been counseling individuals and couples for the past 25 years. We’ve invited readers and social media followers to submit dating and relationship questions to Nancy, and the response has been tremendous! Here, she will answer those questions, in […]
Proper grammar: an overlooked virtue in the dating world
Have you ever received a text that says YOLO or whaassup? You grin and bear it because it’s supposed to be the new way of communicating, but you probably wonder what’s happening with the English language. You’re not alone. According to this fascinating article in the Wall Street Journal, singles place a very high value […]
Ask Nancy: How to handle dating a man with a small child
Introducing our new feature: Ask Nancy. Nancy Gold, co-founder of Elegant Introductions, is a psychologist who has been counseling individuals and couples for the past 25 years. We’ve invited readers and social media followers to submit dating and relationship questions to Nancy, and the response has been tremendous! Here, she will answer those questions, in […]
100 years of wedding dresses in 3 minutes
If you’re a single woman in search of a serious relationship, we bet you envision wedding dresses as clearly as you envision your wedding. Take a look at this fun fashion montage from Mode. And stick around for the great twist at the end. In fashion — and in so many other ways — we’ve […]
The Most Important Tip for Dating After Divorce
At Elegant Introductions, we see many singles thinking about dating after divorce. As this piece in the Huffington Post attests, there is one tip that is more important than anything else: know yourself. What your values are. What your goals are. What your relationship expectations are. If you don’t know all this, finding a soulmate […]