Our Process
Where love is never shouted, only quietly arranged.
At Elegant Introductions, matchmaking is never rushed or handed off. Every step is guided by founders Barbara Black Goldfarb and Dr. Nancy Gold Zimmer, two women who have spent their lives helping others find real, lasting love.
What we offer isn’t a platform or a pitch. It’s a quiet, personal experience crafted with care, led by intuition, and grounded in deep expertise.
You won’t hear about us from ads or algorithms. Our service is a whisper, shared only between a few quietly and elegantly.
Here’s how it unfolds.
1. A Heart-to-Heart Beginning
Your journey begins not with a questionnaire, but with a genuine conversation. Whether over Zoom, coffee, or a quiet lunch, Barbara and Nancy take the time to understand who you are, what you’ve lived, and where your heart is headed. If there’s a shared sense of alignment, and the belief that we can help, you may receive a personal invitation to begin.
2 . A Blueprint for Love
From there, we design your exclusive personal matchmaking blueprint:
- Barbara draws from her trusted, invitation only network of global leaders, creatives, and changemakers.
- Nancy, a PhD psychologist, identifies the emotional markers that point to lasting compatibility, attachment style, communication, relational rhythm.
Every introduction is vetted through the same lens: Would this match truly support your highest happiness?
Only Barbara and Nancy see the full picture. No assistants. No algorithms. Just two devoted matchmakers quietly shaping a path forward, in step with you.
3. Quiet Search, Thoughtful Introductions
While you live your life, we begin our search. Behind the scenes, introductions are considered, researched, and personally vetted, often through mutual connections who know our standard of care. Most of our candidates aren’t on apps or in any database. They’re from Barbara’s vast network of leaders, professionals, entrepreneurs and famous visionaries. They’re simply open to meeting someone wonderful, when the right someone appears.
You’ll meet one match at a time, never rushed. Each introduction comes with expertise, clarity and intention.
4. Dates Designed for Connection
We arrange every detail so your time together feels natural, not staged.
- The setting encourages real conversation, not background noise.
- Barbara may suggest an outfit or setting that aligns with your energy.
- Nancy can offer a quick confidence boost if you’re feeling nervous.
It’s not about impressing someone. It’s about arriving as yourself, and being truly seen.
5. Reflect. Refine. Repeat.
After each meeting, you’ll reflect privately with Barbara. She listens for what worked, what lingered, and what didn’t quite land. She’ll give you feedback from your date. Then she and Nancy refine your blueprint based on real, human insights.
You’ll never be left wondering what’s the next step, You’ll receive clarity, kindness, and direction, so each step brings you closer to the connection that feels right.
6. Exclusivity, Discretion, and Graduation
When the right match emerges and the relationship deepens, new searches pause. Coaching continues as needed, always respectfully. Most clients “graduate” within six months, some with a partner they never thought possible, others simply with confidence, peace, and hope restored.
A Whisper, Not a Billboard
Because Barbara and Nancy lead every search themselves, they accept only a small number of clients each year. You won’t hear of us from flashy headlines or ads, only word of mouth and trusted introductions. Elegant Introductions is quietly recommended within inner circles passed from one discerning client to another like a well kept secret, with results that speak for themselves.
Engagements are personalized, as every search is, an investment comparable to an executive search. But what’s being found here isn’t a hire. It’s your person.
Ready to Begin?
We invite you to take the first step with a private call with Dr. Nancy. No pressure. No commitment. Just a warm, real conversation about what you’re looking for, and whether our quiet, founder led approach feels right for you.
Call 305-615-1900
Because real love doesn’t need to be loud. It only needs to be true.
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