Do Not Search for Instant Fireworks
After a first date, many people immediately ask themselves, “Did I feel a spark?” It is an understandable question, but it is not always the most helpful one. Instant attraction can be exciting, but it does not necessarily predict compatibility, emotional safety, or a lasting relationship. Some of the strongest connections begin more quietly and […]
Ghostlighting: When Disappearing Is Paired With Manipulation
For years we have heard about ghosting. Someone disappears without explanation, leaving the other person confused and wondering what happened. While painful, ghosting at least carries a certain clarity. Silence speaks for itself. Recently a more troubling behavior has begun appearing in modern dating conversations. It is often referred to as “ghostlighting.” Ghostlighting combines two […]