How to Make his Heart Pound

Matchmaker Advice on How to Make his Heart Pound If there’s one question we hear more than any other, it’s “how do I make him want me?” And we’re not the only ones. Google searches for “texts to make him want me” are through the roof! And in any given episode of The Bachelor, the […]

Foolproof Date Conversation Topics

Foolproof Date Conversation Topics (and ones to avoid…) When asking about the weather just isn’t enough, and asking about politics is a little too much, it can be hard to find the sweet spot for fun, engaging conversation starters. Luckily our expert matchmakers have you covered. If you didn’t have a great date right now, […]

5 Tips Professional Matchmakers wish you knew about First Dates

Relax and Enjoy Your First Date with These Simple Elite Matchmaker Tips The dreaded First Date. Nowadays, with another date just a swipe away, it seems like the pressures and awkwardness of a first date have only been magnified. At least with a professional matchmaker you know you’ll be meeting someone you actually have compatibility […]

You had a great first date! Now what?

As elite matchmakers, we love hearing about wonderful first dates. Is there anything better than that tingly feeling you get when the sparks fly? Then, there’s the question that so many singles have: What do I do now? It’s actually a very good question. You want another date, but if you respond too soon, you’ll appear needy. On the […]

Dating Over 50

While on the phone with my fellow Matchmaker Erica Arrechea of Cinqe Matchmaking, we spoke about common frustrations our clients over 50 express to us quite often. Among these frustrations, we noticed many of the issues had to do with conversation imbalance, non-verbal communication and misconception on what each sex wants in a partner. Read […]

New Year’s Resolutions for those looking for love in 2018

Resolutions. At this time, just about everyone’s making them. If you’re deciding on your goals in 2018, and putting “finding a soulmate” high on your list, congratulations. You’ve already taken an important first step. That’s because, despite the still-popular believe that “love happens when you’re not looking for it,” we know this doesn’t happen very […]

Why you shouldn’t write off dating during December

As many of you read this, you are preparing for the holidays.  Or you’re busy holiday shopping, or readying to welcome snowbirds from up north, or thinking about New Year’s resolutions. Maybe, if you’re a professional multi-tasker, you’re doing all of the above. But one thing you are probably not doing is dating. Many singles tend to write off their […]

Yes, blind dates can work out very well. Just ask our clients!

Does the idea of a blind date make you shudder? If you answer yes, you are hardly alone. This is understandable in some ways. In most movies or television shows, the blind date often goes horribly wrong. Or maybe you’ve had some experiences where well-intentioned people tried to set you up, and it just didn’t […]

The dos and don’ts of dating “out of your league”

How many times have you spotted someone you’d like to date, only to have that little voice inside your head tell you she’s/he’s “out of your league”? Should you ignore that voice – or listen to it? The answer depends on a variety of circumstances. As elite matchmakers, we only accept clients who we believe we […]

How To Avoid Dating Insanity

You’ve probably heard this modern-day definition of insanity – doing the same things over and over, yet somehow expecting different results. Many singles have this same mindset when it comes to dating. The good news is that you can change this way of thinking. It’s certainly true that the older we get, the more set […]

5 simple tips for relieving stress on a date

Stress – that’s a subject that most of us can relate to big time. It seems like we’re all stressed to some extent, but that doesn’t make it easier when you must deal with it. When it comes to dating, many our clients say that they feel stressed. This is understandable. It’s natural to be […]