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List What You Want in a Relationship

Do you really know what you want in a relationship? Most people don’t and they end up dating the “same person” over and over again. Think about it like this – if you don’t know what you want, how will you ever find it?

We often put more energy into making up our grocery list or drawing up a list of errands that need to be run. Why not do the same for the qualities and traits you want to have in a romantic relationship? Even though you might feel like making a list takes the fun out of romance, you will find that narrowing down your ideas makes it much easier to focus on what you want and need from The One.

  • Write out your thoughts on what comprises your perfect relationship – this can be anything, even if you think it is impossible to find in a mate.
  • Think about traits and characteristics – values, lifestyle, career, etc.
  • Compare your list to your previous relationships to gain insight on where they fell short of your wants and desires. By knowing yourself and what you want from a romantic partner, you’ll be better equipped to recognize if you are dating someone who fulfills your needs or whether you are wasting time by trying to mold them into a good fit.

Our elite matchmakers take the time to get to know you and your desires and preferences, so they’ll know exactly what you want in a relationship! For more information, call Nancy and Barbara at Elegant Introductions today at 305-615-1900 or contact us for more information.

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