More First Date Tips

First dates are important because you don’t get a second chance to make a first impression. There’s no surefire way to guarantee success on a first date, but psychologists, anthropologists, and body language experts agree that there are some things you can do to make a date go swimmingly and some behaviors that will likely cause your relationship to hit an iceberg.

One of the biggest first date tips is to be positive! Positivity is an important element of a successful first date. Going in with a calm, relaxed attitude and being polite and considerate can go a long way. Be genuine and honest, but also don’t be an open book on the first date — more personal information can be shared when trust and intimacy have been firmly established. However, keep in mind that first dates are about a balance of information exchange: Listen and show interest, but also contribute to the conversation and don’t be afraid to ask questions (though expect to answer any questions you ask). It’s perfectly fine to talk about your strengths and why you’d make a good partner, just try to avoid sounding arrogant.

In general, you want to present yourself as someone who wants to move forward, so talking about exes is generally unwise because it makes it seem like you’re stuck in the past and focused on failed relationships instead of starting a successful one. Similarly, don’t treat your date like they’re your therapist, doctor or your best friend — first dates are rarely the time to talk about feeling lonely, health issues, etc. You want to present yourself as a desirable person, not some sort of “victim” — it makes your date question why you’re interested in being with them in the first place.

When the end of the evening comes around, there’s no pressure to get super touchy. The more physical aspects of dating tend to happen naturally as intimacy and comfort between the two people increases. And in the worst case, it’s always good to leave your date with something to look forward to for next time.

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First Date Ideas

Do you need an idea for something to do on a first date? Some fun first date ideas include going to an arcade, strolling through an art festival, or taking a class together. Wait, what? Take a class? We aren’t talking about an “official” class! Taking a cooking class allows you to enjoy each others company and lets you learn about each other without the pressure of having to think of things to talk about (you can talk about the class if you are pressed for a topic). A painting class can be lots of fun and you’ll each have a souvenir at the end. A pottery class works well, too. The idea is to be creative about the date so you’ll enjoy each other’s company in a comfortable environment, which will hopefully lead to Date Number Two.

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First Date Tips – What About the 3 Day Rule?

How long should I wait before asking for another date? At Elegant Introductions, we get that question a lot! You’ve gone out and really clicked, but you don’t want to seem needy, so you are thinking about following the 3-Day Rule that says you have to wait before getting in touch with them. Don’t wait! It’s OK to call or text your date simply to tell them you had a great time and are looking forward to seeing them again. Once you get a positive response, it’s easy to set up another date.

Our expert matchmakers can help you with first date tips to avoid dating pitfalls through personal coaching and individualized introductions to your perfect match. Call Elegant Introductions today at 305-615-1900 or contact us for more information.

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First Date Tips – What About the 3 Day Rule?

How long should I wait before asking for another date? At Elegant Introductions, we get that question a lot! You’ve gone out and really clicked, but you don’t want to seem needy, so you are thinking about following the 3-Day Rule that says you have to wait before getting in touch with them. Don’t wait! It’s OK to call or text your date simply to tell them you had a great time and are looking forward to seeing them again. Once you get a positive response, it’s easy to set up another date.

Our expert matchmakers can help you with first date tips to avoid dating pitfalls through personal coaching and individualized introductions to your perfect match. Call Elegant Introductions today at 305-615-1900 or contact us for more information.

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First Date Tips – How toTake the Pressure Off!

How can I take the pressure off of a first date? That’s a question we hear all the time! A great first date tip from our Elegant Introduction’s matchmakers suggests keeping it “casual” and meeting for coffee or lunch instead of automatically heading out to a fancy-schmancy restaurant. If the date goes well, you can always keep it going by adding a movie or other activity.

Need more first date tips? We’ve got the answers! Call Barbara and Nancy at Elegant Introductions today at 305-615-1900 or contact us for more information.