First Dates and Relationship Compatibility

The first few dates with someone new can be tricky: you want to get to know them better, but you don’t want to waste your time doing so if they aren’t the right person for you. Obviously these dates are the time when you need to ask questions to get an idea of your relationship compatibility. The problem is that asking a lot of questions can make a first or second date turn into more of an interview. Instead of cross-examining your date, think about asking these types of questions as part of a good conversation. Have them in the back of your mind and work one or two into the topic you are discussing. That way, you can get an idea of the person’s future potential without scaring them off!

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Do You Have Relationship Compatibility?

Worrying about how you can tell if you and your date are compatible? The first thing to do is to separate physical attraction from compatibility! Just because you are attracted to each other does not mean you are compatible in the way that you need to be to have a potential future together. He may be handsome and suave, but that may be all he has to offer you! Does he want children and how many? How does he handle his money (does he spend it all or does he pinch every penny until is squeaks)? What about his work? Is he neat or sloppy? All of these things can seem trivial at the start of a relationship, but can end up being the thing that destroys it if you two aren’t on the same wavelength.

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Thoughts on Relationship Compatibility

When you first start dating someone new, you’ll spend time seeing each other in many new settings. Watching each other react in these different situations can help you learn whether or not the two of you are compatible. One way to tell how well you will do in the long run is to assess his or her maturity level. Does he treat the waiter like his own personal servant? Does she talk condescendingly to people whom she feels are “beneath” her? Does he only think about himself? Does she consider how her actions or words come across to others? How do they treat their friends or family members? Pay attention as these patterns can be a sign of your relationship compatibility… you can bet that the behaviors that emerge over time will eventually be reflected in your own relationship.

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